Monday, February 1, 2016

DISNEY: day one and two {arriving and Magic Kingdom}

We have been back from Disney for about a week and still reeling from all the fun we had and reliving the memories. It was such a great trip and I am thrilled with how well it went. This was our first big trip just the four of us and I was planned and organized and so ready to go after spilling the beans to the kids. "On to Disney" became a reality!

Using hotel points, we spent the night half way to break up the drive (total drive is about 7 hours). We arrived in WDW on Monday afternoon and checked into Port Orleans Riverside. I chose this hotel, a "moderate" resort in Disney terms, after reading reviews and wanting something mid-priced.

The resort is modeled after the antebellum south along the Mississippi and has two areas with guest rooms: Alligator Bayou and Magnolia Bend. We stayed in the latter, the rooms in southern plantation-style mansions. When I saw the look of the "royal guest rooms" online for just a little extra, it sealed the deal. These royal rooms are decorated in a fancy, New Orleans style and feature Princess Tiana (from The Princess and the Frog), one of our favorites.


We scheduled an earlier dinner at 'Ohana, a fun restaurant at the Polynesian resort.



The atmosphere is great and the food was delicious. The waiters bring you a big bowl of salad, rolls, and sides and then come around with chicken and steak on big skewers. We ate until we could eat no more, then had dessert, a yummy bread pudding. ;)




{Joseph does not like the flash.} Towards the end of our meal, the man playing the ukulele came around to our table and Joseph was fascinated - both with his wireless mic and the instrument. He also taught the kids how to do the "hang loose" hand sign. Hannah met a friend, too, a boy about her age traveling with his mom. By the end of the night, he gave his Pirates of the Caribbean swords to Hannah and Joseph. This family lives in Macon, not far from us, and we also drew connections to several mutual friends. Small world.

When we got back to our room, we gave the kids surprises: Mickey shirts to wear the next day, Minnie ears for Hannah and Mickey ears for Joseph. I bought these "extras" months ago and included them in our Christmas spending budget, buying a Mickey shirt for Joe and Minnie ears for me as well. Disney, as you know, can get super expensive, super fast!



One of the highlights for Joseph was definitely the transportation system. The buses, the monorail, you name it. Each morning we found ourselves at our bus stop having to wait no more than a couple minutes. We had heard about transportation taking a lot of time and needing to allow plenty of margin in getting from the park to the resorts, but we did not have that problem. I think one day at Hollywood Studios, and one night upon leaving Magic Kingdom, did we have to wait longer that a few minutes. It was really pretty easy.


We spent our first full day in the Magic Kingdom. We arrived before the "rope drop" or gate opening at 9am to watch the welcome show. It's short but very cute and the kids loved it. Mickey and friends come in on a choo choo. {Joseph talked about that train for the rest of the day.} A bunch of cast members wave and dance, including one of our favorites: Mary Poppins!



As soon as the show ends, the gates are opened and everyone rushes into the park. We went straight to the stroller rental, which, by the way, was one of the best decisions we made. A double stroller for two smallish children was a necessity.

Just inside, after we got the stroller, Minnie came out into the circle in Town Square. We could not believe our luck, there were maybe 3 or 4 people in line in front of us. Hannah was thrilled!





After grabbing breakfast (and coffee!) at Starbucks on Main Street, we got to visit Merida in Fairytale Garden and Ariel in her grotto without too much of a wait. Hannah made fast friends with other little girls in line and, in the case of Ariel, we were right behind a dad that does triathlons. Perfect!

First close up of the Castle! {The crane was taking down the lights from Christmas and it was gone after this first day. Go away, crane truck, you're ruining our view!} Still so magical though...



The kids had not seen Brave and did not know much about Merida (they now have). She was good with a bow, though, which they thought was pretty cool. There is a big stone table in the garden with crayons and paper; Joseph drew a treasure map.




Ariel was awesome. She was so in character - as they all are - and so much fun, playing and giggling with the kids. She taught them how to act like jelly fish, talked about Joseph being a shark, and studied his treasure map. They loved her.



Then it was time for the Seven Dwarfs Mine Train. Joseph was not too sure about it, but the rest of us enjoyed it immensely. We had a FastPass and glad we did; the wait was really long most of the day. FastPasses allow you to wait in a much shorter line but you only get three of these per day.


We hit the Tomorrowland Speedway, Enchanted Tales with Belle (super sweet interactive time with Hannah's favorite princess), Peter Pan's Flight and It's a Small World all before lunch. Remember Joseph and the transportation? Well, he was fascinated with the attractions and how they worked. In fact, on the rides, he was more concerned with how the various "cars" operated than what he saw on the ride (the boats at Small World, for example).





After Amanda's suggestion at Dixie Delights, a blog I follow, we had Friar's Nook for lunch. She was right, the pot roast mac and cheese is amazing. The bbq option was yummy, too. We ate it up and then went right over to Gaston's Tavern for one of their famous cinnamon rolls (they're huge = we shared!). Wow. So good.



Gaston was out front but the line closed before we could get there. That's ok, Hannah was trying to get her daddy to show Gaston a thing or two. Hard to explain to these youngins why you would want to meet the villains, and even harder - why they won't do anything bad. They do in the movies! And if the princesses are real...you know how it goes.

Anyway, the cinnamon rolls lived right up to the hype.

Next up was Dumbo the Flying Elephant. This ride was rather calm, and way more Joseph's speed. The little controllers go up and down and he loved to be in charge of that while riding with Joe. I thought the actual wait was neat. You go inside to a Dumbo circus-style play place.




Leaving Fantasyland, we caught the Festival of Fantasy parade on our way to ride Space Mountain with our third and final FastPass of the day. We were looking right into the sun (Joseph's archenemy) and were further back in the crowd so it wasn't ideal but still, a little excitement on our way to Tomorrowland.


We went into the Lilo and Stitch ride, "Stitch's Great Escape" and that was not a good move. I had no idea what it was, but it's a sci-fi show. You go in a theater style space and sit with overhead restraints holding you down as special effects surround you. It gets really dark and is rather long. I didn't enjoy it myself. Joe got separated from us and went in on his own after we did. He sat on the front row and got "spit" on by the robotic Stitch. This was Joseph the whole time:


I felt so bad for him and couldn't comfort him. I just kept telling him it was okay and would be over soon.


Since we knew Joseph would not want to ride Space Mountain, I went first with Hannah and then we got what is called a "rider switch" and Joe rode it with Hannah, all of us getting to go through the FP+ line. We did this with most all of the roller coasters, giving us one on one time with each child. It really worked out well and everyone was happy. While Joe and Hannah were taking their turn in space, Joseph and I went for another spin around the track.



Of course we had to ride the teacups, or Mad Tea Party as it is properly called (I didn't know that). Joe spun us around as fast as he could. Hmmm hmm. And, after a ride on the carousel and a photo op with the Sword in the Stone, it was time for Hannah's appointment at the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique.



This was such an exciting part of the trip and the perfect end to our first day ever in the Magic Kingdom. The Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique came highly recommended, and while I debated it at first, I was so glad I got one of the last available appointments when I called a few weeks before our trip.

The Boutique is located inside Cinderella's Castle. Upon arrival, Hannah was ushered into a dressing room where she changed into her Belle dress - the costume she picked to bring for this special occasion. When it was her turn, she was introduced to her Fairy Godmother-in-training, Carolyn. We watched as Hannah was getting all dolled up.




She got her hair done, nails painted and makeup. She was in princess heaven! The cast members were very friendly and Carolyn answered all of Hannah's many questions, including how many years they had been in training and when would they get to become a real fairy godmother. It was cute.

Fairy dust for lots of sparkle!


She was told to make a wish under her fairy dusting. It was so sweet when she told her Fairy Godmother-in-training that her wish was that she (Carolyn) would get to be a real fairy godmother. Our child wishing that someone else's wish would come true. So like my baby girl.




She asked to wear her Belle tiara. The Mickey barrette was a surprise. Even Joseph got some fairy dust!




We fled the castle and made our way through the parade crowd and out of Magic Kingdom. A monorail ride took us right to The Contemporary resort where we had dinner reservations at California Grill.



The restaurant is at the top of the hotel and overlooks the MK. When it comes time for the fireworks display, they dim the lights and pipe the music in. We sat right there at our table beside the window and took it all in. A magical evening indeed! During the "Wishes" fireworks show, we are told to make wishes. Joseph wished "to be a police officer." Hannah wished to "go to heaven one day, to be with God." Again, my Monkey's sweet heart melted mine.

Our first day in Disney was non-stop and so much fun...and we were exhausted when we boarded the bus back to our hotel.



Saturday, January 16, 2016

on to disney!

I have been planning our first trip to Disney for months and, finally, last week we told the kids.

Last Monday was the last day of their holiday break and we were ready to bust (or at least I was). Joe and I liked the idea of telling them ahead of time, but not too far out that they would drive us crazy! It was exactly two weeks away.

Joe is really good at coming up with clues, rhymes, etc. and has a history of making an occasion out of opening a present. He surprised me the weekend before our wedding with a long poem revealing a trip to my first Auburn game. He wrote a whole scavenger hunt with clues that rhymed for Hannah's 5th birthday Disney Cruise surprise. So, I asked him if he'd come up with something short to attach to the top of the present. Inside the box would be the Magic Bands. I was thinking it would be two or three lines, a little hint... Nope. He came home from work with a song he recorded on his phone, his words to the tune of "Under the Sea". {As a side note, he loves Sebastian and is really good at imitating his voice.}

He played it as the kids unwrapped the box, and I took a video.


As we expected, it was pretty quiet for about half the song. Then..."Now I get it!! We're going to Disney?!?!"




Joseph was not sure about the whole thing. I love his reaction on the video. Like, what's the big deal? At the end he was excited, but I think it was due to big sister's excitement.

We learned our lesson when we gave them the Disney cruise. While we knew the significance and what all a Disney cruise entailed, the kids didn't. They didn't know what a Disney cruise was and for sure all the fun they would have. This time around, we didn't expect much of a reaction but we still wanted to make the surprise part fun. We were surprised and happy with how well it went.


And now, let me tell you, we are TO THE MOON excited!!! Everyone is. I've shown the kids videos and pictures online. We have talked all about it and made plans together. And we have been counting down the days. Hannah tells us every morning how many days are left. Joseph wakes up and asks each day if that is the day we are leaving...or does he have to go to school.

Well, Joseph, guess what? No more school days left!

Friday, January 8, 2016

hannah love




That's what our refrigerator looks like right now. The bottom four drawings were done on Sunday during Joe's sermon: me (with a book), Hannah (with a tree and bumblebees on the back), Daddy (at the pulpit, the altar is drawn on the back), and Raffie (Joseph's lovey...Joseph is on the back).

...And there's no denying the child "loves God and Jesus" - she writes it all the time.


In case you are wondering, that's a whale, a picture of her with Momma and Daddy, with her doll Maddalena. She drew a bunch of Christmas-themed pictures and cards. I especially loved the manger scenes.



Let it be known: Hannah is a prolific artist. She is creative and imaginative. She loves art supplies, and thanks to Aunt Katie at Christmas, has procured quite a collection of different media. The girl's got papers, crayons, pencils, paints, chalk, stickers, glitter, and on and on.

And she produces lots and lots of pieces. Lately it has been mostly drawings and notes (as she's learning to spell), but occasionally I receive a book (stapled pages together) or painting. She will proudly present each piece to us upon finishing. It is adorable. But it is also a little overwhelming. After all, I have to find a place to tuck away or display each piece. I can't say that I haven't thrown some away, indeed I have because of the sheer quantity. I really, really love the fact that she is a budding artist. She gets it from me, no doubt, and I'd rather not talk about art school tuition, but I love that she is creative and artsy.

For a long time, Hannah would finish a drawing and, somewhere wherever there is space, write "Hannah Love". Of course, she meant to write "Love, Hannah" but that's not how she did it. It would make me smile every time she came into whatever room I was in, put her drawing in my hand (oftentimes asking me to close my eyes first), and beam. Between her sweet smile looking up at me and "Hannah love", I was done. Be still my beating heart.

She would usually wait for a response. It could be just a thank you, hug, a compliment, or me immediately hanging the work right up on the refrigerator. Due to the number of times (a day!) this happens, I catch myself from over-praising her.

When the children were younger, I read that parents should be careful in giving praise and lavishing compliments on their children. That, while it's good to boost their self-confidence, we have to also be aware that we can give them an inflated sense of self and capabilities - and very interestingly - enable them to only perform or engage in an activity when praised. The study showed that children that are overly praised stop making an effort, or avoid altogether doing the activity.

All that to say, I try to mindful how I respond to Hannah's artwork presentations. I try to evaluate and make specifics comments like, "I love the way you drew those people" and "I like how you used so many colors."

Other times, I can't help myself and exclaim, "Hannah!! This is GREAT! I LOVE IT! You are such a little artist!!!" ;)


Even though she doesn't write "Hannah Love" anymore, I refer to all this artwork as Hannah Love. It is definitely a way she shows love...



She also defends her baby brother.


It just makes my mommy heart so happy.

During church a few weeks ago, she was acting up and I got on to her. This is what transpired.




Monday, January 4, 2016

ssi and new years

We ended 2015 with a young family clergy retreat at Epworth by the Sea on St. Simons Island. It is a little winter getaway when all the younger families in the South Georgia Conference of UMC get together. We have a few learning sessions (which are typically great), a bunch of free time, and even (free) childcare one night so all the couples can go out to dinner!

It was a really good time, catching up with friends and getting to know other pastoral families. There is ample space for all the children (and there were lots of them) to run around and play in a safe environment. Hannah and Joseph had a ball.

Our first night there was a late one and included a campfire and s'mores. It was after ten before the kids went to bed and they crashed.



Both afternoons we were there, the weather was unbelievable - warm and mostly sunny. So, of course, I took them to the beach! The fact that we were unprepared, and didn't have bathing suits, did not stop us one bit.


Do you see the size of this tide pool? I'd never seen one so big. Hannah and Joseph were in heaven!



The water was freezing, but they didn't seem to notice. Joseph went in up to his chest, and Hannah took her skirt off and went up to her waist. No bathing suit? No problem!




After a meeting, Daddy came and helped build a sand castle. Then we headed back to the hotel (I ran back - weird it being so warm) to get ready for date night.


The retreat technically ended on Tuesday afternoon with group photos and sharing of Holy Communion.



We decided to stay another night and, while Joe went with a bunch of guys to see Star Wars, I took H+J back to the beach. It was mostly cloudy, but same tide pool situation and same amount of fun.


My little artist loves to write in the sand. She came up with this all on her own: "All of us are different to God! By Hannah Buck". Six-year-old wisdom. How profound - and right on - she is...


That night a few of us took our kids and went to Bubba Garcia's (yummy Mexican restaurant in Red Fern Village) and then to get frozen yogurt.


Fun times with friends. Hate that we don't all get together more than once a year. The whole working on Sundays thing...

We got back home last Wednesday night and ushered in the new year without much ado. The babies were in bed by 8:30 and Joe and I before midnight. No late night crazies here. It rained all day on Thursday and all Joseph wanted to do was ride his new police motorcycle. On Friday morning, he welcomed 2016 with a backyard patrol:


While I welcomed it with a cup of coffee in the living room, my Monkey by my side.


We decided to have our little celebration on New Year's Day. We took every glow-thing in the house and lit sparklers, while Joe prepared a lucky supper of turkey sausage, collard greens, a black-eyed pea/onion/quinoa mixture and cornbread. Delicious!




I accompanied Hannah on a 7th birthday outing to Lake Oconee on Saturday. Her friend, Elizabeth had an ice-skating party. Elizabeth's mom, my good friend Jennifer, asked me to come along and drive some of the girls. We skated at the Ritz Carlton Lodge and then had pizza and cake at Mellow Mushroom. So glad I could go; we had a great day!



The Christmas decorations are officially put away (a 3-day job), with which the whole family took part. I got a lot of help with taking the ornaments off the tree by playing a search-and-bring-to-Momma game:


So, Happy New Year!! We have had a good start to 2016 here on Evergreen Drive and are excited to see what 2016 has in store for us.